When my journey with the Gulf Coast Center for Nonviolence started in October 2015, I was a single parent in an abusive marriage, which causing me physical harm to the point that I could not take it anymore and called 911. The officers from that call referred me to Adrienne’s House, Gulf Coast Center for Nonviolence’s satellite domestic violence shelter.
During my three months there, I received counseling, safe housing and various resources. However, one day, I answered my husband’s call, and he gave me his word that he would never hurt me again. Because I wanted a family filled with what I thought was love, I returned home.
Things were good initially, but three months after I returned home, the abuse resumed and was worse than the first time. It was as if he were teaching me a lesson and creating a level of fear so that I wouldn’t leave him.
EMPOWERED, SUPPORTED AND NEVER JUDGED
One day I mustered up the courage to flee once again, finding a safe space and supportive environment in the shelter to rebuild my self-esteem and confidence. I have utilized shelter resources at both Jane’s House and Adrienne’s House a total of seven times, with my last stay being in 2022-2023. Each time, I was empowered, supported and never judged nor made to feel unwanted.
During my most recent shelter stay, I managed to regroup and push through the heartache, pain and tears; I was able to be myself. I regained the power in my voice and was able to use that to create a change in my life. I returned to school and graduated in addition to obtaining a career I truly enjoy. I was able to work with community agencies, as well as shelter staff, to obtain my United States citizenship.
Today, I am fortunate to be a safe provider for my children in an environment where they can be comfortable and don’t have to feel like they are in danger. The work that is done at The Gulf Coast Center for Nonviolence has been lifesaving and life changing and continues to be a great support. I am grateful for the work this agency does and the aid its staff provides, and I would encourage anyone who is dealing with domestic violence to connect with them.