By Brandy Rea
Sensitive subjects like domestic violence and child abuse can be difficult to discuss, and we often avoid these conversations due to fear or discomfort. However, the significance of these issues, along with their prevalence in children’s lives, requires us to confront this discomfort and fear. We must unite to educate ourselves on these topics and learn how to support and appropriately respond to those affected by domestic violence and child abuse.
TELLING THE FULL STORY
While the media often highlights domestic violence cases, the full story often is overlooked, particularly the involvement of children who not only may witness these acts but also suffer as victims. The U.S. Advisory Board on Child Abuse and Neglect indicates that domestic violence is a major precursor to fatalities resulting from child abuse and neglect. Research shows that children exposed to violence at home are 15 times more likely to be physically and/or sexually assaulted than the national average. Furthermore, children in violent households experience physical abuse or severe neglect at a rate 1,500% higher than the national average. The combination of domestic violence and child abuse leads to lasting negative effects on children, families and communities.
LASTING TRAUMA
Children raised in violent environments are significantly more likely to have serious psychological issues in both the short and long term. Those who have experienced domestic violence often meet the criteria for post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), with brain effects comparable to those of combat veterans.
Moreover, childhood exposure to domestic violence is directly linked to learning difficulties, lower IQ scores, impairments in visual-motor skills and issues with attention and memory. Living amidst domestic violence can even alter a child’s DNA, aging them prematurely by seven to 10 years. Individuals who grow up in such environments are six times more likely to commit suicide and 50% more likely to abuse drugs and alcohol. Those who experience domestic violence during childhood have a 74% higher likelihood of committing a violent crime against others. Additionally, children from violent homes are three times more likely to perpetuate the cycle of violence in adulthood, making exposure to domestic violence a significant predictor of future behavior.
TIME FOR ACTION
Given these alarming statistics, it is evident that action is needed. Professionals must collaborate to offer services, including trauma therapy, family and victim advocacy, court preparation and more. Victims often feel overwhelmed and uncertain about where to seek help or how to find safety. Addressing domestic violence already is challenging, but when child abuse is involved, the intensity and danger for victims increase significantly. We must foster open communication and supportive listening opportunities for children and adolescents. Those with access to positive role models and a safe environment for communication are better equipped to report abuse and begin healing, helping to mitigate the negative effects associated with exposure to domestic violence and child abuse.
Child Advocacy Centers play a crucial role in collaborating with other professionals to combat child abuse and domestic violence. Together, we can make a meaningful impact and amplify the voice of our most vulnerable population, our children. This awareness campaign is part of a statewide initiative of Children’s Advocacy Centers of Mississippi to educate communities on this important issue.
Brandy Rea, LPC-S, BC-TMH, is executive director of the Wesley House. Reach her at (601) 485-4736 or info@wesleyhousemeridian.org.
April is Child Abuse Awareness Month
Every April, Child Abuse Prevention Month highlights the importance of protecting children from abuse and neglect. Established in 1983, this month serves as a call to action for communities, families and organizations to unite to create safe, nurturing environments for children. The goal is not only to raise awareness but also to promote prevention efforts and to support survivors.
Here are some ways you can show your solidarity:
- Wear blue on National Wear Blue Day (the first Friday in April) and throughout the month.
- The pinwheel is the national symbol for child abuse prevention. Displaying pinwheels in your yard, workplace or community spreads awareness.
- Familiarize yourself with the warning signs of abuse and neglect, such as sudden changes in behavior, unexplained injuries or withdrawal from activities.
- Donate to or volunteer with child advocacy centers, shelters and family support programs.
- If a child confides in you, listen, believe them, and help connect them with appropriate resources.
- If you believe a child is in danger, contact your local child protective services or call the National Child Abuse Hotline at 1 (800) 4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453).