Right now, a woman you know is hiding in plain sight. She’s your neighbor, your coworker or even your close friend, but she wouldn’t dream of burdening you with her problem. She may not even admit the truth to herself, much less to anyone else: Her situation at home is out of hand. She’s constantly terrified. She bears physical, emotional and mental scars that she takes great pains to conceal. When her abuser tells her he’s sorry, she forgives although she knows it will happen again and she feels like a fool for staying. If she did leave, where would she go? What would she live on? How could she rip her children away from their home? What if he found her and something horrible happened?
This woman may smile and act normal in your presence, but she is in turmoil — and, according to statistics, in great danger. Maybe this woman is you, and you are too embarrassed and afraid to seek help.
That is why Domestic Violence Awareness Month, observed in October, is so significant. It’s a time to bring the silent victims out of the shadows and illuminate an issue that affects millions worldwide. If you are being abused, it’s time to break free. If you know someone in an abusive relationship, it’s time to have the tough conversations. Her wellbeing IS your business.
From the local to national level, many resources are available to support victims and promote healing.
Together, we can break the cycle and foster a future rooted in safety and support for all.
