1. Help them make a plan
Develop a strategy for dealing with homework. On heavy homework nights or when there’s an especially hefty assignment to tackle, encourage your child to break up the work into manageable chunks. Create a schedule and make sure to take time for breaks. Once you find a plan that works for your family, stick with it.
2. Eliminate distractions
Turn off the TV, Netflix, the phone (or put it on Do Not Disturb/Airplane Mode), and any other potential distractions. Close unnecessary programs on the computer. Be mindful about the type and volume of music. Make sure your child has a quiet, well-lit place to do homework.
3. Make sure kids do their own work
When your child asks for help, provide guidance, not answers. Giving answers means your child will not learn the material. Too much help teaches your child that someone will do the work for him or her when it gets tough. Homework is a great way for kids to develop independent, lifelong learning skills.
4. Know the teachers
Meet with your child’s teacher to discuss the nature of the approach to topics that your child is being taught. Go to school events, such as parent-teacher conferences, to meet your child’s teachers. Ask about their homework policies and how you should be involved.
5. Be positive about homework
Tell your child the importance of school. Be a motivator. Show interest and ask about assignments, quizzes and tests. Give encouragement, check completed homework and make yourself available for questions and concerns. The attitude you express about homework will be the attitude your child picks up.