By Amber Marentette
Leaving an abusive relationship is one of the most challenging and dangerous times for a victim of domestic violence. However, many resources and services are available to help support victims through this process. As the domestic violence coordinator in Gulfport, I’ve observed that one of the biggest obstacles a victim faces is the lack of awareness of these vital resources.
HAVE A SAFETY PLAN
If you’re planning to leave or already have left an abusive situation, it’s crucial to have a safety plan. This should include:
• Identifying a safe place to go, packing an emergency bag with essential items, arranging childcare if needed and informing trusted friends or family members of your plans
• Establishing financial independence, which is key when leaving an abusive partner. Local organizations can provide critical assistance, including emergency shelter, public benefits applications, job training and employment opportunities:
- Gulf Coast Center for Nonviolence, Biloxi: (228) 436-3809
- Biloxi Housing Authority: (228) 374-7771
- Mississippi Regional Housing Authority, Gulfport: (228) 831-2992 or (228) 248-1030
- WIN Job Center, Gulfport: (228) 897-6900; Pascagoula: (228) 762-4713
LEGAL ASSISTANCE
Legal support often is necessary, too, and these local resources can help with protective orders, divorce filings and other legal matters
- Northcutt Legal Clinic, Gulfport: (228) 868-7144
- Mississippi Center for Legal Services, Gulfport: (228) 896-9148 or (800) 498-1804
EMOTIONAL AND MENTAL HEALTH SUPPORT
Physical and mental health are top priorities but can quickly become neglected. Free or low-cost counseling and support groups can provide invaluable emotional support. Your local domestic violence shelter or healthcare provider may offer mental health services or referrals for counseling.
Leaving an abusive relationship is never an easy decision, but you do not have to go through the process alone. You can safely break free and rebuild your life with the proper support. Contact your local domestic violence agency or shelter, or visit www.gccfn.org to learn more about services and resources in your area.
Remember, your safety is paramount. If you’re in immediate danger, call 911. For 24/7 support, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or visit thehotline.org.
Amber Marentette is domestic violence coordinator with the Gulf Coast Center for Nonviolence. Reach her at amarentette@gccfn.org or (228) 868-5785.