We all look forward to making holiday memories with our loved ones, but what about all the tasks that come before, like cooking, decorating and cleaning?
The truth is that entertaining doesn’t have to be stressful. With some simple strategies, you can host a fun, festive gathering that leaves everyone, including you, relaxed and content.
1. PREP — AND DON’T PROCRASTINATE
Preparation is the key to success in any area — including entertaining. Make a checklist of everything you’ll need, from food and drinks to décor and seating. If possible, cook and set up your space ahead of time.
2. SIMPLIFY THE MENU
You don’t want to be stuck in the kitchen during the festivities, so don’t overcomplicate the food you serve. Stick to familiar recipes that you’re comfortable making. Incorporate crowd-pleasers like charcuterie boards, finger foods and easy main courses like casseroles or pasta dishes. If cooking isn’t your forte, there’s no shame in enlisting help from your favorite restaurant or grocery store. You can even host a potluck where guests contribute dishes.
3. CREATE A COMFORTABLE ATMOSPHERE
Having a welcoming ambiance is more important than making everything look picture-perfect. Use dim lighting, play soft background music and add small sensory touches like fresh flowers or candles. Seating arrangements should encourage conversation and give guests enough room to mingle. Focus on making everyone feel at ease.
4. LET GO OF PERFECTION
We all want to host a gathering that our guests will be raving about for years — but it’s often the little imperfections that make an event memorable. If something doesn’t go as expected — a dish is late coming out of the oven, or you forgot to grab extra ice — don’t dwell on it. Remember, your guests are there for your company, not to judge.
5. ENJOY YOURSELF
Once you’ve greeted your guests, stop worrying and focus on enjoying the company. Take a deep breath and remember that the best gatherings are those filled with laughter and good conversation. A host who’s having fun sets the tone for everyone else to do likewise.